Welcome

You're in your 40s (or close enough), something is happening to your body that nobody warned you about, and you just want to know if lifting weights will help or if you're going to pull something.

The answer is yes, and probably, and that's okay.

I'm a fitness teacher who works with women in midlife. I've watched strong, capable women walk in completely blindsided by perimenopause — the sleep, the weight that moved to a new location, the rage, the joint stuff — and nobody connecting any of it to what's happening in the gym. That gap annoyed me enough to start writing about it.

Pull up a chair. It gets better.

Should You Do Cardio Before or After Weights? (What the 2024 to 2026 Research Actually Says)

Should You Do Cardio Before or After Weights? (What the 2024 to 2026 Research Actually Says)

Should You Do Cardio Before or After Weights? (What the 2024 to 2026 Research Actually Says)Jane Cox
Published on: 29/09/2026

Cardio before or after weights? A 2026 review of 144 studies found cardio does not cancel strength gains. When order matters, and how to plan your week.

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How Hard Should Strength Training Actually Feel? (The 2-Reps-Left Rule, Explained)

How Hard Should Strength Training Actually Feel? (The 2-Reps-Left Rule, Explained)

How Hard Should Strength Training Actually Feel? (The 2-Reps-Left Rule, Explained)Jane Cox
Published on: 25/09/2026

How hard should strength training feel? 2024 research says end most sets with 1 to 3 reps left. How to find that zone, and why going all-out isn't needed.

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Why Do I Leak When I Sneeze or Jump in Perimenopause (And What Actually Fixes It)?

Why Do I Leak When I Sneeze or Jump in Perimenopause (And What Actually Fixes It)?

Why Do I Leak When I Sneeze or Jump in Perimenopause (And What Actually Fixes It)?Jane Cox
Published on: 21/08/2026

Leaking when you sneeze or jump in perimenopause is common, not permanent. What 2024 and 2025 research says about pelvic floor training for women over 40.

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Why Does Bone Density Drop So Fast in Perimenopause, and Can Strength Training Actually Stop It?

Why Does Bone Density Drop So Fast in Perimenopause, and Can Strength Training Actually Stop It?

Why Does Bone Density Drop So Fast in Perimenopause, and Can Strength Training Actually Stop It?Jane Cox
Published on: 13/08/2026

Bone density can drop 3 to 5% a year in perimenopause. Here is what a 2025 study of 690 women found about strength training and bone density recovery.

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